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He's not mine - but I want him!!

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Question - (10 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

He's not mine - but I want him!!

I don't know what to do - I got on really well with this man who I thought liked me! I gave him my number but he said he had a partner! Nevertheless he does call me from time to time but not very regularly due to having a partner!

The thing is I pine for him terribly as I fell for him before I found out he was attached and I don't know how to get over him now and to forget about him as I really like him!

What shall I do?

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A female reader, agneeman South Africa +, writes (12 November 2008):

agneeman agony aunt"He's Just Not That Into You". It's a book by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccilli or something. Read it. You need a reality check.

Don't you deserve more than to be the Other Woman? Is that what you want for your future? Are you THAT disposable? Don't you deserve a man that completely dotes upon you? I don't even know you but I know you're worth more than that. I don't think you believe it. I have a hunch you've been hurt badly in the past and forgotten what you deserve- what you dreamed of as a little girl.

To be the Princess, remember? Not the Witch.

Read the book. I can't tell you what to do...

but read it

READ IT!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for your advice! To be honest I wasn't really looking for a man (and am still not) & that is what makes this even harder because we just got on so well...and now I know it'll probably never happen!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008):

as you said he is not yours save yourself the heartache and forget about him,if he had any real interest in you he would have made that pretty clear

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