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writes:I have an amazing girlfriend who looks attractive and can hold interesting conversations. And she loves to spoil me!I'm 19 and she is a self titled "older broad." (I'm guessing 42-44 but I've never asked her.) I don't know if she's feeling self concious or not but she buys me stuff alot (like shirts or DVDs.) The first time she bought me something I told her "Thanks but you don't need to buy me stuff" and she said "I have a steady career and you are a poor college student--of course I should buy you things." So I left it at that.I !LOVE! it when she buys me things but I feel kind of awkward when I don't have anything to give her. When girls want to show their appreciation for a guy they give him sexual favors, but I like having sex so it wouldn't really be a favor for her. I guess I could buy her stuff too but I doubt anything would impress her. So what can I do to show my girlfriend how much I appreciate her especially when she buys me stuff? Reply to this Question
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reader, jeaniemarie +, writes (16 November 2008):
Cook her dinner. Surprise her with a nice massage by candle light when she comes home from work. Run her a bubble bath. All this may or may not lead to the "sexual favors" you speak of, and some of them are quite good too! Tell her you love her, how special she is. Spoil her pets (if she has any) and her kids. Buy her a single rose. Leave her little notes that say "I Love You" with her lunch for her to find at work. There are lots of things that don't cost a lot of money if you get creative
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (10 November 2008):
Sorry but I don't give sexual favours to say thank you. That's a bit of a narrow minded view.
However, there is nothing wrong with you doing that if you want to. And yes you enjoy sex but why not try and make it really special for her, give her lots of foreplay and do everything you can to make her come before sex, and again during.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (10 November 2008):
 Who said girls give sexual favors and at the same time don't like doing it? I'm sure she will be very happy with all sexual "favors" you could ever give her, and even better if you do like giving it. Think of it as you being her gift, and it is nothing wrong in liking to give your girlfriend a gift, is it?
Apart from that she might like it if you cook her some good dinner now and then, and rub her feet when tired after work.
Don't worry, I'm sure she likes you just as you are.
Best wishes!
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