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I'm having fantasy of a threesome. Am I normal?

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Question - (19 May 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2008)
A age 30-35, * writes:

Ok I'm bi

I don't tell many people this because I'm afraid of what they will say but thats not the point of this message.

Today in 5th period I had both people I like together in one class . Boy and a girl. I don't why but I started having this fantasy and like totally spaced out! I don't know why my hormones are acting so weird today....

I had a fantasy we had this threesome kinda thing except they were both working on me at the same time but they didn't do anyhting to each other and I'd do stuff to both of them...

is that normal?

to have weird sexual fantasys like that ?

or do I need help??

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A male reader, wishfully  United States +, writes (1 June 2008):

I'm having the same fantasy mfm or mff mmm. Don't ask! I don't know why I am having thoughts "fantasies" about this. All I know is ... I want to experience it but I am too affraid to approach anyone about it. Due to the fact that I care about what they think of me if I ask such a bold question.

michael

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008):

This is totally normal, your body is just experimenting with sex and whatnot. Just don't take it too far and control it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008):

Well, it certainly wasn't normal when I was 13-15, which was just 15 or so years ago. But I guess this current generation of children is all about sex, sex, sex. How sad. I wonder how things go so off the rails...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks soooo much everyone! I'm glad to know I'm not a freak or anything and that it's normal.... I can't shake the feeling tho...ever since that class It's been popping back up in my head ! lol

thanks again to everyone !!!

XOXO -*~VG~*

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008):

Normal? At 13-15? Are you all kidding? I didn't think of it until I was 20, but now that I think of it, my girlfriend suggested it.

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2008):

lexilou agony auntYou've hit the nail on the head. Your hormones are raging away in your body and sexual urges/fantasies are a perfectly normal and healthy part of this. Hey Im nearly 40 and I still have fantasies about men and women, but thats our secret!! Seriously though dont worry about it you're a normal teenager x

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A female reader, lotus mama808 United States +, writes (19 May 2008):

lotus mama808 agony auntNo, it's normal. I had a threesome with 2 people I knew from one class, but it was after we got out of high school-HONEST. It was cool, we were good friends because we knew eachother from "back in the day" (high school). You are not strange, just sexually healthy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

of course you don't need help.

Fantasies are part of growing up, a way of exploring your sexuality and gaining knowledge of what you like and don't like.

Gee, if I didn't have my fantasies, I'd be one helluva bored girl.

xx

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (19 May 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntYou DO NOT need help. This is a totally common, normal fantasy to have... the only thing I would like to say is that maybe you should be paying attention in class!!

But, I've drifted off into fantasy land during lots of classes, and this seems like a pretty fun way to pass the time!!

You're normal, sweetness.

xx India

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

it's alright.. it's just your hormones acting up. you're going through that stage so don't even worry about it, but don't make the wrong choices. take care.

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