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Why would he make plans with me if he has a girlfriend?

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Question - (19 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2008)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i feel incredibly depressed, i feel like i've lost my self confidence and i'm not worth anything, i started seeing this guy a while ago...it was my own fault to get intimate with him only after a few dates but the chemistry and his genuine personality fooled me. he seemed 2 good to be true,amazing looks,very deep and a thoughtful person, he was very respectful and just seemed sincere about everything he said so i thought we had a lot in common.

long story short while i'd deleted my profile online i found out that he has changed his status to" in a relationship" (note: a week prior to this we both talked about how being in a relationship wasn't an option for the time being,,well it was mostly him saying that because i was going on a vacation for a whileso he didn't want to be in a relationship)so after i found out about his profile relationship status i confronted him i was really upset i asked why would he make plans with me if he has a girlfriend..he has not talked to me since which is even more proof that i was only the girl he was using to cheat with...he was already in a relationship or was working on getting back with his ex..i feel cheapend and my heart's broken,he wouldn't even give me the time of day now and all of sudden i feel like the lowest of the low.what should i do?

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A female reader, MissWendlemoot Australia +, writes (20 May 2008):

MissWendlemoot agony auntDear, you are worth plenty! It isn't your fault for wanting to trust what turned out to be a dog.

I always tell the young ladies that the key to finding out a young man's true intentions with you are keeping your knees together.

It is very easy to get overwhelmed by the delicious lustful feelings we have. Don't be so hard on yourself. A lovely decent man is right around the corner. Let the next one prove himself worthy over time.

Best wishes xo

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A female reader, Hurt4life United States +, writes (20 May 2008):

Hurt4life agony auntSorry to heard that, is nothing u can do in my opinion..All guys look sincere, but they not really are, that just a cover to get u, u deserve better, long distance relationship don't work to well.... Guys are all about sex and new adventures, so leave it like that, because he will keep lying to u, and to her~

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A female reader, Aunt Audrey United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2008):

Aunt Audrey agony auntPut this one down to experience, at least you found out sooner rather than later! What would you want a cheating rat like him for anyway, doubt he'll stay faithfull to his girlfriend so you had a lucky escape.

Sorry to say this time you backed a loser, but you seem like a nice woman so it's his loss!

Good luck.

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