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I think if I were to ask her out again or something it would only hurt her. How can I get over her?

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Question - (19 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There's a girl that I like and I told her I liked her but she said she didn't like me. Except I kept bothering her and eventually she got really mad at me but so I stopped. I tried to forget about her but I really couldn't. Everyday I'd start to get over her but every night she haunts my dreams. I know she dosn't like me so I can't try to get with her but she is driving me crazy, everyday I see her and I have to stop myself from asking her out or something because it will only make things worse for her. I really love her and I would want nothing more to be with her but it's pretty odvious at this point this will never happen and I think if I were to ask her out again or something it would only hurt her. How can I get over her?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008):

the same happened to me. as in you were the guy and i was the girl.

i hated it.

i know you really really like her, but judging from my point of view, it only made it worse when this guy kept pursuing me.

its been over a year and this guy graduated so i havent seen him in forever, and thank god. iv only recently been able to think of him without cringing, and can actually see him now, despite that its still in the back of my head.

he made so unconformable. it was the worst 6 months of my life. he made it a living hell.

dont be that guy.

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