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writes:My husband was groomsman at his best friends wedding. I attended as a guest and enjoyed meeting family and friends on both sides and was proud to say my husband is groomsman and looking stunning in his suit. We endured wedding speeches for 2 hours, with the bride then making a speech stating "if only (my Husband's name) hadnt pinch her on the ass" while getting out of the limo.....I felt like shrinking under the table and as a result i quietly left the reception.Am i over reacting and should get over it as were the comments made next day by all including husband.What would you do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): Just dont say anything, leave it now. Or you may find you have undone the lid on a can of worms, just do your best to forget it and when you meet them talk as if nothing happened, even comment on how gorgeous she looked on her day.
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): I'm sorry he upset and embarrassed you, you must feel humilated if he's known to do this type of thing all the time.
Just explain to the bride that you were angry at yourself because your were in such in a rush that you left your dog leash at home.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi & thank you to all for you help.
Hubby's behaviour can be intolerable at times but this is just him. To have this announced at the reception by the bride, i found inappropriate & insulting to me only, as it did not affect anyone else & propbably the bride had no idea her comment would cause conflict....possibly she announced this because she was annoyed at hubbys behaviour?
I dont know how im going to respond when next we see them...any suggestions greatly apprecieted.
Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): It was her wedding day, and so there was things like this going on, so just try and laugh it off but dont do things that might spoil her day. I think you overracted badly, so now you have to come clean and say you are sorry, and you wont act so childishly ever again.
take carexxx
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reader, Susan Strict  +, writes (19 May 2008):
 Has there ever been a wedding when someone hasn't done or said something highly embarrassing? You were just unlucky that this time it was your husband who did it.
If it were my partner who had done it... he'd go without sex for a week. (And then I'd leap on him and make up for lost time....)
Don't take it so seriously!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): Don't get me started.... hehehe....(LOL)
THE FOLLOWING ADVICE SHOULD BE APPROACHED UNDER EXTREME CAUTION OF STUPIDITY.
You should have slapped her face, stopped the wedding, asked for a divorce and married the husband yourself. That way those two scheming people could have gone off together and you would still be a wife. I mean it's obvious he's leaving you, he pinched her ass right, that's as good as an engagement ring in my book.
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (19 May 2008):
 Hi,
if they know each other well and are friends then you most definitely are overreacting and moreover you made a complete arse of yourself at the wedding.
If you apologise for your behaviour and tell them that you were having a bad day and you overreacted, people should forgive and forget. If you don't then I'm sure the bride is dissing you out as I type. did you think about the bride here? She must be so embarrassed that something harmless was taken out of all proportion - you may have ruined her wedding for her - for your sake I hope not.
Be brave and admit you overreacted. And try and deal with these issues professionally if need be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): Your overeacting. Take a break, get off your high horse. It's a joke, or don't you remember those kind of things.
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