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writes:I really like a popular boy. But i don't think he notices me. How can i get him to see me or talk without him knowing im being pushy.also its hard because he hangs round with peoplee who are qutie popular too.. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): Just be yourself and go up to him and start chatting, not easy i know, but give it a go, i am sure he will notice you then. Find out what he likes and what makes him tick and talk to him about something that you are confident he will know about.
take care
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reader, sammy296 +, writes (19 May 2008):
 If You Are In Any Of His Classes Then Dont Be Shy To Him.
I Know It Might Be Hard To Do But Be Chatty To Him.
I Had The Same Problem When I Was In Year 7 - I Used To Be Really Shy Around The Popular Girls - But Then My Friend Wasnt And Was Talkative To Them, In Time I Learned To Grow Less Shy Around Them And Now Ill Say Hi And I Wont Mind Being Around Them.
What im Trying To Say Is, Talk To Him. Even If Its Some Stupid Thing In Class Like "Can You Pass Me The Glue Please" Or Something Like That. If You Are Casual When You Talk To him Then Eventually You Will Learn To Chill,And (More Importantly) He Will Learn To Be Alright About You.
Hope This Helps :)
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reader, Emzy1591 +, writes (19 May 2008):
 Make friends with his female friends and get in with the gang.
But please remember that the "popular kids" arent always the nicest kids on the block. They can be quite stuck up and big headed due to all the popularity and the whole "i rule the school cos im popular" mindset. Make an effort to talk to him, become his friend etc (best relationships always start off as friends) and see if you really like him. You never know, he might not be the kind of person you think he is.
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reader, BlondeBabe x +, writes (19 May 2008):
 Thats a hard question but something most people will face think.
If he was ever in the same class as you or same group maybe talk about something that you both have in common maybe a sport for example.
You could try simple flirting to get him to notice you maybe smiling in his direction or laughing at his jokes. I think you should become friends first then see were is goes!
Keep me posted on how it goes!
Good Luck x
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