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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello aunts and uncles well you see me and my GF broke up today but i took it alot easier today but it might be the fact that the relationship was long distant.Well anyways she said she was sorry and all i said it was ok and i respect her decision she said that she didn't want to ruin it cuz of the fact i was going to where she lived in the summer to visit her.What did she mean is this somewhat a way of telling me that she wants to see me and possibly be with me? Is thier any hope that if i do go over there will we have a real relationship?this is soo confusing i mean we just broke up today but i love her sooo much maybe we broke up considering of the long distance but i will still visit her. so what do you guys think about this situation plz and thank you =]
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (20 May 2008):
 Personally I think she is trying to say that if you go to where she lives and she has met someone else and is dating she doesn't want it be awkward, well reading between the lines it seems that way.
On the other hand she wants you to be friendly with one another if you bump into each other while you go to where she lives this summer.
I wouldn't get your hopes us to high as she is trying to stay amicable with you and if it is a long distance relationship then she is probably trying to say that the spells in between have meant that the relationship has not been real.
Perhaps in her own way she is saying you are free to see other people and if you choose not to and you are both available when you go there just try being friends without any limits on that friendship.
Don't get your hopes us to high that is all I am saying as no one knows what tomorrow will bring, or next week or next month. You are both young and you don't want to be tied to one another when there is no regular contact and it is a long distance relationship.
Just don't give your heart to one girl as there are so many others out there and who knows you may meet one locally to you and that could be a whole different type of relationship, keep your options open that's all I am saying. I don't mean go and date every girl around but be choosey and see what happens.
Take care.
BFN
Country Woman
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