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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 3yrs. I know he has cheated on several occasion but he wont admit it he constantly lying to me and when i ask him things he cant even remember what he had told me before its just one story after the other and i dont know what to do anymore. sometimes i feel like i can let it go and then next minute im so angry and dont want to be with him anymore. He said he never and will never cheats on me but he has because there was nasty things on my bed once and im sure it wasn't nothing to do with me. now we are having a baby together im finding it even harder. I dont want to break up with him i just want him to be honest with me so we can move on because without the truth i cant move on because i dont know what to move on from. Im starting to believe hes not sorry about anything hes done and thats why he wont tell the truth. I dont know what to do please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): He is a pain in the bum, waste of time and will never be any good just so long as he has a hole in his a***!!!
Get out now and meet someone who you so rightly deserve.
take care
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (19 May 2008):
 I hate to say this but you are fighting a losing battle! He wont stop lying because he isn't mature enough for what you want yet. He's a compulsive liar to boot i expect!
This story sounds amazingly similar to a friend of mine. She only ever loved one person, and it just happened to be a lying snake in the grass. She too ended up having his baby. Her ex husband (who she had a daughter with) was brilliant, yet she didn't want him! Never loved him, yet when the bad guy she did love eventually turned nasty physically on her, she went back to her ex husband, but STILL loves the bad guy, and doesn't know why! Its an awful life to be in. You are asking for the impossible. This guy is the way he is, because he wants to be, and no one is going to change that except him. He will always be right, you will always be wrong, and it will be one rollercoaster after another.
Its a shame you got pregnant.
C xxxxx
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