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anonymous
writes:okay so i am very aware that it is a lot harder for women to reach orgasim than men. now ive had a few orgasms during sex with my ex. my new bf and i have slept together twice now and its great but i just cant get to the point of orgasm. could somebody plese give me tips on how to reach orgasm while having sex (not oral or manual)thanks
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (20 May 2008):
 Its always a hard one to answer as we are all different, I cant stand my clitoris being rubbed with a finger during penetration for example and dont need this to orgasm. You could try lots and lots of foreplay that gets you almost there but stops -maybe several times. Alternate long slow deep strokes with slighter faster ones, get him to stop (without telling you when) completely for a few mins and then start again (drives me wild) and try find a position that really makes you feel as though you could achieve orgasm. Good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): I would suggest that he 'warms you up' a bit first with foreplay so that you are already quite aroused because as you said it takes less time for men to get to climax than women. What I find is a fool-proof way for me to orgasm during sex is if I or my boyfriend play with (for lack of a better term) my clitoris during penetration. Try it! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): It will take time before you will feel completely comfortable with your new boyfriend. Twice isn't enough to get to know each others bodies well enough to know how to hit the spot. Give each other more time to get to know one another's bodies. A lot of the time it could be down to being tence and not being completely relaxed. This will come in time. Just enjoy having sex with him the way it is without pushing for an orgasm. If you try to hard or you worry about it, it can prevent climaxing or make it harder to achieve.
You could try getting him to pull out during sex and just kess and rub against each other. This will not only make him last longer, but it will leave you gagging for him and it will feel more intense when you begin having intercoarse again. Or whilst you have stoppped get him to finger you, this may bring you closer to orgasm faster so that when he is inside you there is less of a climax to build up.
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