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writes:my girlfriend of 4yrs. met with her x-boyfriend for drinks and dinner.she didn't tell me about it,but i found out anyway.she said she didn't tell me about it because i would get mad? well,why wouldn't i be upset. she says they are just friends. she says she loves me and wants to marry me, but she lied to me.help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): Oh i could write a book about bloody exs, including the one whose around right now. I know what you mean, my hubby went out at xmas time, got his son a box of chocs and card to give to his mum. The kid is 15 for godsake! He can go to the shops himself, but it wasnt that that pissed me off as the fact that my bloke tried to sly upstairs to his sons bedroom with the stuff! He wouldnt of said anything if i hadnt of got in from work soon and caught him. And on another occasion he spoke to her for ages on the phone, supposedly about their kids, one of which lives with us, the other is 18 and long since moved out with her bf. I kept ringing the house to try and speak to my son who was on holiday and off school at the time, and i couldnt get through. He said she had phoned briefly to sort out times for their son to go and stay because she had moved 100 miles away. I said i had been trying to get through and days later he admitted he had been talking to her, cos she kept on chatting! She was even telling him what to do with his will!!!!! I was crest fallen and gobsmacked. I wouldnt of been too bad if he had told me right away, but why did he have to chat. I always keep my chats with my ex (only one) to a min. But i thought what he did was so bloody sly. Sorry i ranted on a bit, but my point is:- You may of been upset, but you would of got over it, but it is the not telling that is the worst. You then are left wondering what the hell else takes place and is not talked about. Mail me if you want, i have loads more things, but wont bore you with them all.
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reader, in.need.of.help +, writes (19 May 2008):
 i think that you should tell her that trust is the biggest thing in the realationship and why would she have to go see her ex anyways they are over!! and idk you need to set down some rules.. cause what else dont you know about what she is doing?
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