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Has anyone had problems reaching orgasm with a new partner after being with another for a long time?

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Question - (19 May 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Has anyone had problems reaching orgasm with a new partner after being with one person for a looong time? and how did u over come it. With my ex i had an vaginal orgasm almost all the time!! and with the new partner i have to use a vibrator while he is inside of me or fingering me and it takes a while. We have been together only 3 weeks and he likes to have sex when we are together often i mean like 3 times a day. Ok thanks, my age is mid 30's and he is 10 yrs younger than me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008):

I am just the same. With every partner I have had it took a few weeks before being able to orgasm at all. I guess I didn't feel comfortable enough emotionally to let go of all of my inhibitions and of course each new partner has to learn how to push the right buttons for us. It always sorts it self out for me eventually. I am sure that will change over time, if you show him what you like.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

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to the anonymous person thanx and please answer, what does your girlfreind say about how she feels about this happening? does she feel bad, how do u react to it??? has she had an orgasm with someone else before???

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A female reader, Princesswaiting United States +, writes (19 May 2008):

Just relax...Dont worry about,let your body and mind relax....it will happen!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

Just relax. If thats what it takes for you to cum do that. Your new to each other, that means learning each other. Try to figure out what he can do to make things feel better. If he is a good man, he will listen and try things. I have yet to get my gf to cum from actual sex. That doesn't mean she hasn't had 3 or 4 by the time we are having actual sex

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