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writes:hi, a girl ive been seeing the last few weeks has decided to go back to her ex.he cheated on her, they gave it another go but it wasnt the same, but theyve got back together again.would it be stupid to send her a message saying something like if it doesnt work out and im still free to give me a call?she told me she really liked me and things but didnt want2 string me along incase summin happened with her ex and i got hurt. i really really like her, would it do any harm or would it maybe make her think shes done a mistake if i dont contact her? dont know wots best to do. its hard to take because i could tell how much she liked me but this guys her first bf and shes been with him for 4 years so she cant get over him. i feel like shes afraid to move on cos he is all shes ever known. its gutting cos she sed if he wasnt in the picture shed probably be with me by now but she so confused. wot should i do. do i send that message?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): ok so i think i can give u pretty good advice since iam in the girls place and i have a guy that like you.. if i was her.. i would love for you to stick around even that selfish but i still want come bk to uu if anything wrong happened and thats only if you really wanna be with her.. so yea sure call her let her know that u still gonna be here... becuz iif ya stop contacting its gonna be ur loss and she still gna be hung to her exx trust me ... good luck.. :)
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