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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): Most girls do like (even if they are nuts):
Not the best looking, but the sweetest guys...
The guys that will look them in the eyes, because they can't look away...
Not the best dressers, but the ones that are always clean, because they don't want to miss an opportunity to get close to you...
Guys that remember dumb stuff like the color of your eyes, your birthdate (even if they can't get you anything), that you don't like ice, that cloudless nights are the end-all to romantic settings for you...
Guys that can't help but be guys, that laugh when you say "brown" when asked what kind of car you (or your parents) drive, or get all nervous when you have to climb a ladder...
These things slay me...just being honest.
Ya, and be funny.
Have balls enough to make the first move, and don't use middle-men...bad form.
I don't think money is important if you're not a mooch.
Muscles can be nice, but are highly overrated, just don't be a couch potato.
For me, I like to look at a too-beautiful man, draw a too-beautiful man, but going out to dinner with one is unnerving.
As long as you know you've got their attention, the ignoring thing will work, it's unkind, but effective in luring in a girl just to win the chase, but no way to build a relationship. I would never want to be with someone who operated that way.
Good luck!
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reader, Teenage-Rebel  +, writes (19 May 2008):
 Heres an answer from a girl.
You Can't make girls like you.
If they like you they like you. You can't make them
Be friendly and nice to the girl and MOST importantly
Just be yourself and see what happens.
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reader, madflash +, writes (19 May 2008):
 The answer, however, is not simple.
First, let me assure you that you are opening up a very big can of worms with this one. Women are just plain nuts. Sure we treat them normally, and never point that out to them, but that's only so we can get them to do our laundry and clean the house (among other things).
Seriously though, when that one girl hurts you some day... (and there will be one that will hurt you--there's always at least one of them beautiful, sexy demons that rips the heart out of you)... you will wonder why you ever asked this question, and wish you never had.
Here's what women say they like; 1. A good sense of humor. 2. A sensitive guy. 3. Good grooming habits. 4. Confidence. 5.Thoughtfullness. 6. A romantic guy.
Here's what they actually like; 1. Money. 2. Muscles. 3. Good looks. 4. Being ignored (drives them crazy! Just try it if you don't believe me. They'll be banging down your door.) 5. Whoever their girlfriend's like first. (pay some pretty girl at school 20 bucks to tell all her friends she has a crush on you. Convince her by saying it's a social behavior experiment, and just watch all the girls she tells suddenly 'befriending' you. You will be amazed!!! I guarantee you will have a girlfriend in a week. Of course, you'll lose her again the next day when she finds out from the girl you paid that you paid her to say that, but make sure you get a good smooch before she breaks up with you.)
Armed with this information you can't fail, but I suggest you forget about trying to make girls like you. Just be yourself, and let nature take its course. If they don't like you that's their problem. (This strategy actually works pretty well to get them to like you, by the way... Its the 'being ignored' trait. I told you it drives them crazy, and it does. It really does.)
Good luck
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