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writes:I've been talking to a woman on the phone for several months now, and becoming emotionally involved. She's in a kept-woman, loveless relationship with a live-in boyfriend who, she says, she has not had sex with for months. Our own relationship is becoming very complicated, on hold until she resolves her live-in ex-boyfriend-to be situation. (Her finances, pets, job situation, living arrangements, etc, all prevent her from breaking up with her boyfriend at the moment). Well, after talking to her about how I like oral sex, she called me a few days later and said she 'practiced' doing oral on her boyfriend so she could make sure she would do it better when she does it with me... someday.I'm feeling very confuesed, jealous, angry, and suspicious that she did it to hurt me due to her feeling insecure about what I was doing the night before. (She could not reach me and I was out at a bar watching my friend's band).She explained that the oral sex given to her boyfriend was not enjoyable, but done for practice since she feels she is not that good at doing it. Her tmj, and caps are a concern of hers when it comes to that act... and she's 'out of practice'.How should I feel about this, and should I accept all of this because I really love her, or just forget about her now and move on?
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reader, Hurt4life +, writes (20 May 2008):
 Analyze yourself, do u really love her? just by talking on the phone u will not fall in love, i don't think in my opinion, thats she really wants something serious with u, maybe just a different D**k, thats on u, of u be able to tolerate the situation longer, as u know, she will always come out with an excuses.... Are u single? or u are also trying to experience a new relationship? If u want something serious and stable, move on, if is sex stay there she might give u some.
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (19 May 2008):
 Hmmm thought she said she didn't have sex with him? Ask yourself what else she practises with him? The writings on the wall here, take off your love goggles and see this for what it is, a bit of fun on her part!
Have you actually ever met this woman or did you meet via the internet?
I don't think this woman is ever going to leave her partner, she likes the attention she gets from you, but if she was genuine I doubt she would be telling you of her sexual ativities with her live in partner especially if she has any feelings for you, why would she say things that she knows would hurt you.
I don't think this relationship is going anywhere and I think you may get hurt, get out why you can is my advise...
Good luck.
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