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*iva girl
writes:My boyfriend and i just had sex a couple of days ago. He didn't use a condom. I have been having major cramps ever since. I can't buy a pregnancy test because my mom will know!! Should i be worried about being pregnant?
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reader, Chatterbox  +, writes (18 July 2008):
 jUST wondering what ever happened with your pregnency scare?
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reader, shellycammon +, writes (21 May 2008):
you probably need to talk to your mom about getting on birth control. you would be suprised at how cool moms can be because most of them have been in the same situations that you have. if it has only been a couple of days your mom can help you get the plan b pill. you dont want a baby at your age it is very tough i had one very young. you still have so much growing up to do, i wish i would have talked to my mom alot sooner than after i became pregnant. PLEASE TALK TO YOUR MOM she might be upset at first but you are her daughter and she will love you no matter what and want to help you!
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reader, rebbecarevenge  +, writes (19 May 2008):
 i know its hard but just try and relax =)
ive had exactly the same problem before, i recommend you speak to him about your worries and go to an clinic, and dont if its the same hear as it is there but in London if you go to the clinic everything is private and your parents will never find out.
Seriously i know what its like i ended up pregnant when i was 15, in the end we both (me and my boyfriend) agreed that i should have an abortion, i know it sounds harsh but when your not ready your not ready.
BTW
dont listen to all those people telling you about you should of used a condom, i believe that it just went further than anticipated, never mind atleast you wont make the same mistake again =)
hope this helps
Best wishes!!
Becca
xoxoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): its not just his responsibility
two people were bashing away there
im a woman and even i think its our responsibility too
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): I feel you'er pain, and hopefully you're not pregnant.
But please realize that if you are willing to let a moment of passion ruin you and your boyfriend's life.. then maybe you and your boyfriend shouldnt be putting yourself in the position to be in that moment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): Maybe next time you get caught in the moment you'll be intelligent enough to use a condom or get yourself on the pill.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (19 May 2008):
 Sorry to hear you are so worried.
You should have got the morning after pill, then you wouldn't be so worried.
These things can easily happen, and you won't make that mistake again, you will always remember a condom in the future.
Just do a pregnancy test. I wouldn't let your mum know though.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (19 May 2008):
Sorry to hear you are so worried.
You should have got the morning after pill, then you wouldn't be so worried.
These things can easily happen, and you won't make that mistake again, you will always remember a condom in the future.
Just do a pregnancy test. I wouldn't let your mum know though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): Honey, firstly, calm down! Your cramps shouldn't be related to pregnancy, even if you are pregnant - it's more likely that they are related to your worrying! So relax and take some long baths, and do your best to stop worrying about it all.
But to contradict myself a little, there is a chance you could be pregnant. As the first post pointed out, it's called protection for a reason. In around 3 - 4 weeks, take a pregnancy test. Go to the shops with your boyfriend or by yourself, and get one in a chemist. It's a bit bad when you feel like you're being looked at as though you're young (I know from experience) but it takes just 2 minutes and then it's over with. Do the pregnancy test at your boyfriend's house, or it's small so just sneak it into the loo with you at yours. Follow the instructions and do the test, sneak it out, then wait for the answer to appear (this only takes 2-3 minutes). Don't worry, the test is fully self-explanitory though. She'll never know, as long as you dispose of it well. Hide it right at the bottom of the dustbin or even in a commmunity one.
Good luck, you'll be fine honey. Just relax and do the test.
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reader, Master mind i am +, writes (19 May 2008):
 Don't be worried but don't let it go so easy. Take the test at a close friends house or even his when his parents are not there. you should find out just to be sure. it's a 50-50 situation so make sure and don't worry yourself. it may just be you thinking too hard
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reader, Chatterbox +, writes (19 May 2008):
Hun the best thing to do is go get a pregnancy test. It is so stupid to have sex without a condom. Make sure you use protection as it stops you getting pregnent and stops diseases as well....Your only young so maybe you shouldnt be sexualy active if you do not understand the ricks that are involved. It is something that should be taken seriously and as for your boyfreind he to should be alot smarter next time.
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reader, diva girl +, writes (19 May 2008):
diva girl is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni just need to let you know that we were not planning on having sex, we just got so caught up in the moment it jusst sort of happened!!! im only 15 i can't be pregnant! i'm not ready!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): Yes, you should. It's called 'protection' for a reason.
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