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*emily06x
writes:Basically i broke up with my bf, who i was with for 9 months, and then we saw each other on/off for 3 months after. Towards the end of the relationship he became extreamly sour, stubborn, selfish...and i broke up with him. I thought that if i broke up with him, he would realise what i meant to him...and we would get back together. This didnt happen.About a year on, i have a new bf, and hes amazin. But, for some reason, i keep thinking of me ex,almost comparing them, i just cant seem to let go of my ex. He was everything to me, and at them time i was head over heels in love and actually thought we were going to spend the rest of our life together. At the end of the day he broke my heart when he left.Now with my new fella, i just cant seem to get close to him. I keep thinking the worst and know somethings bads gonna happen, and that obviosuly we are not going to last. Overall, my doupts and fears are really getting to me, i feel like im never going to fall in love again. I know im too over emotional, and sensitive...but thats just me. Im fed up of living in the past.How can i just become back to being happy me? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): I know exactly how you're feeling as I am going through the same thing. I was with my ex for 2 years, he needs space, and is already dating someone else. I thought we were going to spend the rest of our lives together as well. All I can say is that time heals all wounds. It is NOT easy. I'm writing this now and my heart still really hurts. I do the same thing too---I am dating someone else and he is absolutely AMAZING but I can't seem to get close to him because I have my ex on my mind. You might need to fully pull away from the entire situation before being comfortable with someone else. It's hard to just jump right into something else without being ready---only you will know when you truly are.Best of luck.
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