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Do I have a masturbation problem?

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Question - (13 May 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

well ever since age 14 [15 now] iv been having irges to have sex so when ever i do i masturbate ,but the thing is i constantly do it like 3 or 4 times a day is that natural,also y does it come out in small amounts ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008):

Ya im the same way except i hold it in for a couple of days before lift off but you cant hold it for to long or every time you think about porn you statr getting stiff and that can get embersing especially in front of girls i have had some close calls where people almoste saw me stiff so i think your doing what evers natural.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008):

Yes its unhealthy you are developing an unheathy view of women in your mind. You will be unable to sustain a worth while relationship in the future if you don't cut it out.

I know its not what you want to hear because it is pleasurable.

In the end i needed therapy because i had a similar addiction to you.

Hope this helps

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A female reader, hannah76 United Kingdom +, writes (13 May 2008):

hannah76 agony auntIt's sounds a lot of times so I would think you are using all your sperm up! But you are young at the moment so enjoy your pleasure! H.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008):

Absolutely no harm in going at it any time and as many times as you feel the urge. It really is a natural urge to have so if you feel like it - do it!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008):

It comes out in small amounts because you do it so often. That is fine but if you wanted larger amounts you'd need to do it less often. If you waited a few days without masturbating a lot more would probably come out.

Three or four times a day does sound like a lot. You don't have to masturbate every time you feel like sex.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008):

At your age its o.k. you are still discovering your body.

Eventually you will develop into a man and your woman (if she has any sense) will be looking for a man with self control.

Hope this helps

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