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writes:Can you help? I've been married for three years and everything as been going pretty well, but recently i've found out my wife as been discussing our personal problems with her friends, some of which are married to friends of mine.Now i can barely face these guys knowing they know intimate things about me, some of a sexual nature.My wife and I have always had an intimate closeness, i can't believe she's ruined it. I'll never open up again. Are all women so stupid? Reply to this Question
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reader, Aeval  +, writes (14 May 2008):
 Its a terrible thing what your wife did. I share everything with my girlfriends........except what happens with my partner and I on an intimate level! I would also never tell them anything that is personal to my partner . I respect and love him far too much to betray his trust.
Maybe your wife's friends had more respect and didn't tell your mates knowing the situation it would put you in??
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): No not all women are stupid Isabella1974 is testamony to that. Its just that most of them are.
Its amazing women often accuse guys of not opening up. You don't want to take this lightly mate, try to get back what you had. You trusted her with you intimate thoughts and she betrayed that trust, if you had wanted her friends to know about your problems you would have approached them directly.
Good luck
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (14 May 2008):
 Hi,
no not all women tell their friends everything, my husband is also my best friend so i respect what intimate details we have in our marriage and it would go no further.
Anyhow when i am with my friends, we would have far more interesting things to discuss than disclosing intimate details of our married life, i can discuss this with my husband when i get home. Unless it was something we were particularly worried and i knew my husband was ok for me to discuss this if it was to do with him.
Explain to her how you feel, i sure she did not mean anything by it, so dont worry to much.
Take care
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reader, lexilou +, writes (14 May 2008):
 How did you find out?? If it because your wife told you but the guys havent mentioned it then you are worrying about nothing. It is normal for women to discuss things of a sexual nature whereas men despite the bravado rarely swap stories of this nature about long term girlfriends or spouses. Dont worty they are probably as worried as you are. And women are not stupid x
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reader, :):):) +, writes (13 May 2008):
Women do talk to their friends about relationships in alot more detail than men. But don't worry, you're friends wives will also be swapping stories about their husbands and they are also in the same position as you and are probably worrying in the same way you are.
If you've not had any unwanted attention because of this banter already then you probably wont in the future.
xxx
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