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writes: This is really hard for me to admit, but i think im falling into depression or something.I'm just young, but am in a long relationship and things seem to be getting harder and harder. the good times are so good, but the bad times can be awful. He's a great guy and loves me an awful lot, i love him too, i really truly do. This is what keeps me with him, but i think the bad times are causing me to get depressed.Please, could someone help me. I don't know what to say or what to ask, i guess all i'm looking for is a miracle, but i know a miracle will never happen.There's nobody i can talk to about this, especially not my mum. Nobody could understand, and sometimes, i just want to die. Please please help me..
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reader, elsie  +, writes (15 May 2008):
 i think most of us remember the teenage angst and intensity of those years.i remember looking back now and thinking the world would cave in when my b/f finished with me.i laugh now and cant believe how strong those feelings were at the time.everything we go through in life,good and bad, is there to one day maybe make us stronger.give yourself a time limit,then if you really feel that low seek some advice from your doctor my love.good luck for the future.
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reader, growing  +, writes (13 May 2008):
 Look,you are in a long relationship,its not that you just started dating so things definitly won't be same,way they used to be.you are lucky that you know he still loves you and you too.
One can't get happiness everytime and it makes sense,how can one know importnce of good times without going through hard times.its just till the time you won't eat sweet,how would you know what sweet tastes like.
we all get fair share of good as well as bad times but what it demands from us is to stand firm even in hard times and get through with it.
Getting depressed on small tiffs or problems will only make your conditon worse.You should feel stronger each time you come out of a problem.
I think that though you two are still in love but that passion is missing.so rejuvenate your love.remember those things that made you fall for each other and communicate how depressed you feel at times and if you are really in DEPRESSION then you have to seek some medical help.
now what you have to do daily is
SMILE SMILE SMILE
SMILE THE WHOLE DAY THROUGH
SMILE SMILE SMILE
AND THE WORLD IS SMILING TOO
keep smiling!!
be brave
JUST SMILE
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): Look at the bad times and ask yourself why are they bad and what is bad about them? A general answer is no good; you need details. Take the details, every one of them no matter how painful, and go through each one in your head on your own.Then look at the good times and do the same.Now look at what makes you move from good times to bad times and back. What's the trigger?If you can do that calmly and rationally, then you are half way to finding your answers and solutions. Don't try to solve it all at once, because it's rarely one thing. Take each little problem that makes up the big problem and concentrate on working them out individually. It's hard work, but you can do it if you really want to do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): I'm sorry your having such a bad time of it. It's not fair for you to feel like this. Your so young, and you should be having a great time, enjoying the company of your family, friends and boyfriend.
If you could just explain about what's making things so bad it might help. If it's too confusing, try seeing your doctor who can help you see what's causing these bad feelings.
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