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writes:can a long distance relationship work if youre in different countries and only see the person once a year? and also if we broke up 4 times within the year is that a bad sign?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everybody for your comments. I already take that into account but sometimes i think that i(we) dont try hard enough to make it work. or maybe i just dont know how to let the person go. i dont know. thanks though.
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (13 May 2008):
 Long distance can work but I think you have to see each other more than once a year and have a definite plan for ending the long distance and being together.
I did long distance for 3 years and saw each other about 2 times a year. It was very difficult. The last year before I moved here, I saw him one time in 10 months. Honestly, if I didn't move here when I did, the relationship would have ended as it was just too long apart.
Talk to your partner about these things and come up with a plan to be together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): My boyfriend and I are in different continents and in the last year have seen each other just once. I can honestly say that to start with it was just about ok - emails, skype calls etc but now we have decided we (I)either commit to being with him or we will have to move on. I am currently torn apart and am planning to fly out to see him again to see what to do whether I have a future. Ultimately the relationship has to 'go somewhere' and change - its just a case of when. I wish you luck. Given the choice I wouldn't go through this again. In this instance love cannot conquer all.
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (13 May 2008):
 Hi there,
I have seen long distance relationships work before, but it was in cases where they would have seen each other more than once a year.
sorry to say, but for a relationship to work you need to see each other more often, and you say you broke up 4 times within that year. It is a bad sign as due to the fact that you dont meet face to face very often and you still broke up, it signifies to me that there are problems already there.
Take care.
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