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She's my friend and I told her I liked her. Now she tells me to leave her alone after a huge fight.

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Question - (13 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello, I have a frined that I recently started to like so I told her that I liked her and we got into a big fight because she didnt like me and now she says to leave her alone and never talk to her again.

If I had known she would have reacted this way I never would have said anything but I want to put it behind us and go on with our friendship.

She and I liek to make movies and over the summer I would want to make one with her but she dosnt want to be near me. How can I convince her to be with me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008):

You know what. I was going to say, you should be understanding, give her little space and then try to approach her again, but changed my mind.

You wanna please her, then give her what she wants. Don't speak to her. Write her a letter explaining how you feel, apologize for upsetting her and promise her that you'll never bother her again.

Then stay far away from her! Find some new friends to be around, that can make you feel a little bit better about yourself. Make your life happier and more exciting than this stuck up madam ever could.

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A female reader, Angel/Devil15 United States +, writes (14 May 2008):

Angel/Devil15 agony auntHey

I'm Angel/Devil15 and the name is self explainitory. I have two sides.

Angel says: Simply talk to her and ask her why she got so upset about her liking you . Tell her that she doesn't have to like you back but you would still like to be her friend and forget everything and be the way they used to be ...

Devil says: Forget her . If she doesn't like you and is goign to get all pissy over nothing then do you really wanna be hanging around her anyway ???

I gave you both sides of the advice which one you choose to listen to is up to you . . . .

O:D ANGEL DEVIL ]:D--

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