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writes:ON the 11th, was our 1 year anniversity, and she cheatted on me then and also on the 12th, that I know of, as that is all she told me. I'm still in love with her, and didn't let her know how much it hurt me, I just told her, that it's ok, and not to do it again. she had to go see her mom in Feb. and will be back next month, but I don't know if she'll cheat again. she means everything to me, but it hurts so much knwoong she did, and I wanna know what are the chances of her doing it again Reply to this Question
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (16 May 2008):
 Hi there,
but she is hurting you...please try to see this.
You sound like a very caring person and she does not deserve you. Try to be strong, she is not thinking of your feelings when she is cheating on you.
I know it is very hard when you love someone so much and you do not want to lose them but what i am sensing from you is that you are suffering at the moment and i hate to see someone being treated like this.
did you sit her down and talk to her about how hurt you are feeling? how upsetting this if for you and can she guarantee that this will not happen again? I know it can be very hard for guys to talk, i have a brother around your age and i would hate to think a girl would do this to him.
This is really hard for you, i know, but try to be strong, if your girlfiend cant guarantee it wont happen then sweetheart, move on, its best for you.
Let me know how you get on, email me, i will check this to see if you have replied or else you can email me privately.
Take care and be strong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008):
Well I wanted to tell her but I can't bring myself to doing it, I don't want to hurt her, and I'm affraid to lose her
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reader, Isabella1974 +, writes (13 May 2008):
Hi there,
What she done was a very hurtful thing, she cheated on you so the trust that you once had is gone.
If you tell her its ok and do not show her how hurt you were, then there is a possibility she will do it again, i think she may do it again regardless, sorry but i think your relationship is over.
I know you love her, but it will go on hurting you even more if you are constantly worrying about if and when she is going to do it again.
It sounds to me like she wants out of the relationship and this is her way of doing it, cruel i know, try to move on and get someone who will treat you better.
Good luck and take care
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