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writes:He says he just wants to be friends but he calls me every day. We are together every weekend. When I feel like we are getting close I can feel him back off. I love him. He wants me with him but he wont talk to me and tell me his true feelings. I am so frustrated. Can you tell me how I can truly know if he loves me or just really just wants to be friends? Reply to this Question
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (13 May 2008):
 Hi there,
It could be the fact that he just sees you as a friend
or i think when he says he justs wants to be friends to you presently, maybe he just needs time and does not want to rush into anything with you at the moment, but values your company.
Is he just getting over a relationship from the past or going through a divorce? this would explain why he is afraid of getting close, maybe he has he been hurt badly before?
You say when you are getting close, he backs off? there is something is holding him back, he does sound like someone not ready to get involved in a relation at the moment.
He obviously loves being with you and enjoy your company. Why dont you both sit down and have a long chat, ask him could he ever see you both being romantically involved together in the future?
Hope this helps, good luck and take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): I think you should talk to him and ask how he truly feels about you and if he does not respond, then just give him time to answer. Don't try to rush and always expect the unexpected. To me, he is shy and nervous around you. Spice things up with him like a candlelight dinner perhaps or maybe seduce him with something sensual. Talk to him tonight and tell him how you feel about him.
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