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I have liked this guy for a long time and it's beginning to get me down

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Question - (13 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *reacle88 writes:

I have liked this guy for a long time and it's beginning to get me down, but I can't move on because he's on my course and in my friendship group. I don't know what to do, in an ideal world I would cut all ties with him but I don't see how this is possible.

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A female reader, treacle88 United Kingdom +, writes (16 May 2008):

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When I hooked up with this other guy I only liked him as a friend, but yeah I guess it's just unfortunate it took me so long to realise that it was him I really liked all along, cheers though!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008):

Could you talk to him about it? Maybe think about why you want to move on. You don't say whether he is an ex. If not, what have you got to lose.

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A female reader, treacle88 United Kingdom +, writes (13 May 2008):

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No we're not going out, but I would like us to. We study together and have the same friends so spend a great deal of time together, which is making it hard for me to move on. He used to like me, then I got a boyfriend, then when we broke up we got together but he decided he wasn't ready, and now I just don't know whether to wait, or whether I'm wasting my time? I think he's worth waiting for, but I don't know whether he meant he'd be ready at some point, or whether he was just trying to let me down gently. Thanks!

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