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30-35,
*EIGHTON
writes: hi im Leighton,I am 16 yrs old i met a guy that i instantly fell for and he seemed to like me aswell. He would call me to see how i was and to meet up with me because we lived close. Over a couple of months i fell in love with him even more as i got to know him better. But then when i was on the phone to him he said that he was round his girlfriends house randomly, so i said "ok then , sorry to disturb you" and then hung up. He then rang me in the night to apologise, i said it was fine when deep down i knew he was not telling the truth about her.The next day the girl that he was with called me and told me that he had lied about his age, he told me that he was older then he really was and that eh had gotten her pregnant and made her have an abortion three times etc. He knows that i am a virgin so does he just want to use me or does he really care. The thing is that i really have deep genuine feeling for him.help!! He is a black boy and my parents are racist and they would never approve of him. what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): Move on. Thats what you do. When someone isn't worthy of you - you move on. Try not to hold on to your feelings for him becasue they will only drag you down.
He's not worth, especially if he dates the kind of woman who will actually call you.
Understandably you now know but the first instance of him being with his ex and lying to you about it means he's not your type - no matter who you are or where you come from your too decent for him.
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