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writes:Hi, My boyfriend told me he needed space and is seeing someone else. He still calls me, comes over, we go to dinner, etc. I love him so much and I don't know what to do. Should I just let him go? My heart seriously hurts everyday that I am not with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): IHolding on to him isn't going to get you anywhere. If he's seeing someone else, it's obvious that he has broken up with you for his own selfish reasons. It's okay to be friends with him, but do avoid anything is associated with couples. Though it might hurt because you're in love with him, it would pay off in the long run. I've been in your position before, so I can feel what you're going through. Be strong! :) Take care, I wish you the best. 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): Thank you ALL! You seriously made my day!!
Love you guys! =)
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reader, rcn +, writes (12 May 2008):
 It will hurt, but which one are you? The main woman, or the other woman? Stand up for yourself. Tell him you will not be played. Needing space, as people call it, is not breaking up and doesn't provide an excuse to be jumping on someone else. By allowing him to keep doing this with you, you're validating and saying it's okay to play you, and that you'll be there while he's playing with these other girls too. You need to be strong and put your foot down and tell him NO.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (12 May 2008):
 I guess you should let him go. By saying he needs space, he has put your relationship in a sort of a stand-by: he can see or go out with anyone, and you can't complain. At the same time, he does things to keep you at arm's length. I think you shouldn't accept that. Either he is with you, or he isn't.
Since he is who put you in this situation, this time you have to make the decision: do you stay with him, this way, or would you rather let him go?
All the best.
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reader, growing  +, writes (12 May 2008):
 What's this mess?
He is seeing sum1 else,you are well aware then what you are waiting for??
for thresome???
He is just having a good time with you and her and only he knows with how many others.
Remember, if you break up with someone or someone breaks up with you, it is only because there is someone waiting for you.
It will hurt to death but will that make any difference to him??
You don’t die from a broken heart - you only wish you did.
Its not that difficult when you ask yourself is he worth your love and time??
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (12 May 2008):
 Hi girl!
i know how you feel, my boyfriend told me that he needed to focus on school and sports but like a week later he got a new girl. It does seriously hurt and I can only imagine how you feel actually being with him and not being emotionally connect like a relationship should be. If I were you I would let him go because it sounds like he is using you thats juss my opinion about it. I dont understand if he is acting like he is with you then why is he with another chick? Dont put yourself through anymore sorrow and misery over this guy, cut him lose and throw the line back in and find a new guy. This loser isnt worth your time and tears. Keep your head high and move on!
take care && Good luck=]
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