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Did someone perform some sexual act on him to 'last blow his load'? Because it obviously wasn't me!

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Question - (12 May 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Please I need some help before I start pulling my hair out!! And i'm sorry but i'm going to be blunt there's no beating around the bush with this one.

Ok some background info I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half years we have a good relationship, no betrayal (as far as I know) on either side.

He is at uni so we only see each other every weekend but we talk on the phone almost every night. Im quite a insecure person (more than he knows). Ok so this morning we were in bed and I was pleasuring him (hand job!) afterwards he made a comment about his load being 3 days worth! I said what? and he just changed the subject and I was too much of an idiot not to question him further.

Please help! 3 days ago would be Thursday/Friday does that mean he slept with someone else or at least someone performed some sexual act on him to 'last blow his load'? Because obviously i wasn't around or does it just mean when he last had a wank?!

Please help im stressing!!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008):

He's thinking about you and spanking his monkey! Nothing worse than that.

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A female reader, Miss Potter United Kingdom +, writes (15 May 2008):

Miss Potter agony auntAhhaha!! Relax!!! It just means he played three days ago!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008):

I don't think anyone would hint that they were cheating on their partner like that.

It's too obvious. If you get stressed constantly like that, talking to him might seem obsessive.

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A male reader, Vulpes United Kingdom +, writes (14 May 2008):

I'm with the other answer on this - believe me, he means he had a wank! Almost certainly thinking about when he was going to meet up with you. Been there, got the T-shirt! :)

If anything, it shows how exciting he finds you that he couldn't leave it alone!

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A male reader, uncle_baj United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2008):

uncle_baj agony auntim confident he just had a wank,he changed the subject cos very,very few man can talk about something like that with their g/fs,infact blokes barely even talk about it with each other,its just a male thing babe so dont worry,hope this helps? x

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A female reader, PreciousNY United States +, writes (12 May 2008):

He is masturbating and probably nothing more than that. Men cannot go that long without releasing tension, etc. I wouldn't worry about it at all. He probably didn't think before he made that comment, but is too embarrassed to tell you that he masturbates. Most guys don't advertise that information.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

oh honey!

I know how hard it is being in a long distance relationship, at uni and only seeing your other half at the weekends, I do it, and have done for 2 years!

Im sure he just had a wank! dont worry or let this bother you!

In future, ask him! Me and my bf always talk about things like sex and wanking and who did what when, tis fun and a nice way to ahve some sort of sex life when we arent together! At least we know whats going on, and it really turns my bf on to talk about fantasies etc.. ;-D

maybe you could try that, help you feel more secure and have some fun at the same time!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

I think you're reading too much into this and I would give him the benefit of the doubt. I doubt he is stupid enough to let slip that he was with someone else - he probably meant the last time he "relieved himself". I think you need to chill a bit.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

Well, it could be any of them but stop stresssin! its probs jus the last time he had fun with himself!!! but if yha that worried just ask him but dont accuse girl

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