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*quinjunkies
writes:A while ago I met this guy on an online community. We became close friends and eventually even more. It was then that I decided it would be best to let him know I was actually a girl, with a male avatar (kind of a role playing community). He understand...and it was then that I learned he too was actually a girl. We laughed about it and shortly after (within a month) we decided we really liked each other. She re-assured me of my bisexuality, and I made her aware of hers. She ended up asking me out officially, and I said that I would think about it. At the time, I was kind of crushing on someone else, too, but I threw that away and I finally said yes to her. We were great until my crush for this other person took over again. I told her I needed to sort some things and that I wasn't sure what was going to happen... Well, eventually I stopped even going on the site we talked on, and I got so consumed in this boy that I knew in person that I forgot all about her. But things didn't turn out, and I realized just how much I did love her.I came back and talked to her, and... as it turns out, she's moved on completely and is with someone else now.I'm so depressed and distraught, and all I can do is blame myself for screwing up so badly.What should I do? Talk to her more? Try to win her back? Or forget about her? It's so hard...
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reader, Squinjunkies +, writes (18 May 2008):
Squinjunkies is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you guys for replying. It's good to see everyone's got the same answer... I am trying to move on, but she and I talk nearly every day so it gets difficult to let it go at times...
But I will try.
Thank you again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): Here's a couple of websites that may help you now and in the future when you have to make difficult decisions.
www.topten.org/content/tt.BD107.htm
www.shropsych.org/makingdifficultdecisions.pdf
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (12 May 2008):
 I agree with jitter cakes. This is really complicated and it sounds like a messy one. Anyway if shes moved on completely you dont have a choice, you need to just stay well away from her and respect the fact that she is happy and with someone else.
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