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*ranni.Gurl
writes:My dad and mum divorced 9 years ago when I was 6, since then until now I've lived with my dad and his new wife in another country, while my mum lived in England with no money. During all these years, my stepmum has made my life hell. Now I'm almost 16 and my mom has decided I will go live with her. A few months ago I started going out with a boy. He is the boy of my dreams. We've been together for a long time and we love each other a lot. What do I do? If I'm going to go live in England with my mom? Far away from the person I love???
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): With all due respect, it's rubbish to say you will never see him again. If the bond between you is half as strong as you say then of course you will see him again. If you or he choose not to stay in touch with each other then that is a different matter. It doesn't take a lot of effort to keep in touch wherever you are.
If both of you care, then you both make the effort. If one of you doesn't, then it's better to find out now than later.
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reader, Franni.Gurl +, writes (12 May 2008):
Franni.Gurl is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ive been living in spain with my dad and stepmum for 9 years, my boyfriend is ukranian..he lives here in spain..when i move..if his parents loose their jobs he wil move bak to ukrain and i will probably never see him again..
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): If it's real love it will last. And, more importantly, you will have the opportunity to get to know other boys - as friends, at least. That's valuable. When (and if) you settle with this one boy of your dreams, the strength that you will have gained by the separation and by being able to have friends of the opposite sex without your appreciation of them being clouded by your only true love, will help your relationship last.
It might feel like hell at first, and if it is real love then that's most certainly how it will feel, but few relationships that start at 15 or younger do last - so if you have something special with this boy then your enforced separation may be exactly what's needed to give you both the strength and knowledge to form a real and permanent bond.
Good luck.
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