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Do these feelings mean I'm a lesbian?

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Question - (12 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hi i was going shopping with my mates and i saw a lesbian couple kissing and i was all confused cuz i had never thought about that before well not really and i had this funny feeling all inside.

when i got home that night i was a bit board so i went on a site and oh god im really scared and confused if i am a bi or but cuz i never felt like this about seeing girls

do stuff i dont know what to do if i should just ignore it or accept it !!

pleas pleas help me!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

Its okay to be confused. Some girls can be confused about wether they like boys or girls. Anne Frank for example went through a phase where she wasnt sure. Its something that happens. It could just be a phase. Don't worry just wait and see what happens

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A male reader, uncle_baj United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2008):

uncle_baj agony auntthis is just natural,trust me,dont go thinkin ur a lesbian,your merely curious as most people are your age,its just puberty,so dont worry about it too much,ask yourself other questions,are there any boys u like? do u daydream about boys,are there any boys that stand out to u? but i believe it just natural,i still look at men and can say if i think there attractive,but the thought of another man naked really doent do it for me,so its all about discovering urself which will come in time,hoope this helps,rate me thx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

No. It's normal. Go with it. Feel it. Enjoy it. It may go away as you mature. It may not. Mostly, don't worry about it because it's nothing to be scared or confused about. Most of us had those feelings at some time or other. If it stays with you then you make your decisions when you are older, because you are what you are and it's that simple. Until then just wait and see what happens.

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