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writes:well me and this guy were really close...but then we decided that we were better off as friends because of the type of relationship we had we could talk about anything. and i came off as one of his friends. so thats why we decided to be just friends. but thing is ever since that was initiated he never calls me. so i feel that he isnt interested so i dont call him. lets just say that we never call each other. and if he does want to talk he just text me. I really do not like were this is going. and i feel that if things continue this way then there isnt going to be anymore friendship between us. i do not want to lose him because hes played such a big part in my life. but he acts as if hes jus not comfortable with me anymore..and if i call him its like he has nothing to say. can anyone just give me some advice as to why you think he would act like this?..and what can i do to save our friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): Hi Hunny
First did you both decide this, which one of you brought it up first? That could be an important factor. Plus you dont think he may have got a g/f and is scared that she may feel uncomfortable with your friendship and you may feel wierd so he is just not saying anything..It sounds a little strange that you go from talking more than fine then this cold silence..If I were you Id text him and ask if you could talk as you miss his friendship and see what he says hunny, If hopefully it is a yes then you can say to him just what you have said here and it may all come out. It may be nothing, but your both getting confused. To find the reasons behind it all will be to openly talk with your friend hunny, If you were that close love then you really have nothing to loose if the situation is as it stands now..I HOPE IT WORKS OUT HUN TAKE CARE LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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