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writes:I like my friend. We are close. We talk a bit, but I don't know if she likes me. She sends me pics of hear wearing new outfits and asks my opinion. She was tellin me bout this guy who liked her, and she turned him down. So she feels free talk to me bout stuff like that. I enjoy listenin but i feel shes really friendly but does not fancy me! I need to stop likin her! But how? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): The ladies are right, like I said before, we have a strange way of showing intrest. You'll never know unless you go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): Maybe she turned them down, because she's waiting on the guy standing right next to her to ask her out. (That's you) Just tell her you like her, a real lot. It's obvious she likes you. She's your friend, if she dosen't feel the same way she'll tell you. Good luck.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (13 May 2008):
 What standard? So they're older or better looking than you seem to think you are? That does not make them of a higher standard. I think really good relationships start by being friends first, and you're already there.
Why not ask her out for dinner and see what she says? She may just be waiting for you to ask her on a proper date.
The most attractive men are those with a great personality, good self-confidence, and the ability to make a woman laugh with them. How are you doing in those areas?
I'm rooting for you by the way!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionye u guys are right.... But ... She Is really pretty. The guys she turned down are very good looking and some older, so that makes me think I got no chance if she's rejecting guys of that standard! Anybody get my point?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): Trick question. There is no method to take to stop having feelings for someone, really unless there is a serious issue with her that turns you off. The best healer is time. But, the truth of the matter is, you dont know if she fancies you because you never asked her. I l know, I know, you dont want to ruin the friendship. Get this: when I had feelings for a guy friend, I would tell him that some other guy asked me out to make myself more desirable to him. I would say it to see his reaction. Did he look down about it (I hoped)? Was he gonna say, "but I was gonna ask you"? Girls have a funny way of showing intrest. She probably thinks you are too shy to ask her.
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