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How do I get my boyfriend to initiate sex?

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Question - (12 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, *icG writes:

How do I get my boyfriend to initiate sex?

I always have to do it and if I dont initiate the sex then we never have sex! I know he likes having sex with me but I always have to actually start it.

When I try to talk to him about it, he gets offended and starts an argument.

I dont know what to do! Can you help?

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A female reader, les United States +, writes (12 May 2008):

How long have you guys been together and where do you normally do it?

I had the same issue with my boyfriend during the first couple of months. Since we both have our own apartments, I just started taking baths with him. Or I'd say.. I want to take a shower, can you come and rub my back. Or, I'd take a shower and tell him that I had dry skin and asked him to rub lotion all over my back. And then turn around and ask for the front.

If you spend enough time around him naked, he'll jump on that asap.

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A male reader, uncle_baj United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2008):

uncle_baj agony aunthe doesnt initiate it cos he doesnt have to,as u say,u start it all the time,i know it may be hard lol but resist temptation to have sex with him,dont talk about it or anything to do with it then trust me he will start,roll reverse ad u will see a difference x

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