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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have known this guy since i was at primary, even though he is a year older than me. When i got to high school i started to fall for him. When he found out how i felt he started ignoring me. I asked him the other day online why he was ignoring me. He wouldn't answer, so i kept asking him. I ended up insulting him. I've apologised twice but he is really annoyed with me =[ I don't even want to look at him now when i see him, as i feel like an idiot now. How can i get him to be less annoyed with me and how can i make the situation better. As so far i've only made things worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): Just a quick note: You're not trying to apologise online are you? Because he'll only take you seriously if you talk to him face-to-face.To be buzzed constantly online is just annoying, and it won't work. Be careful of that.
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reader, growing  +, writes (12 May 2008):
 If your exams are not lined up and you have plenty of time to be at your romantic best then you can do a lot of stuff to make things better but you should ensure that he is single so that you don't end up making things even worse.
1)just behave the way he expects you to.
2)when you two face each other,maintain eye contact for seconds or so and then just slowly turn away with half smile and expression of"SORRY".
3)when you do this for 2 days then on third day,just go to him and tell him how bad you are feeling for what all you said that day (in exceptionally soft and low tone) and then handover this small handwritten note to him
"How do I tell you I'm sorry -
With a gesture, a look, a touch?
How is it I never realized
I hurt you so very much?
I'm sorry I hurt you
I didn't mean to
I'm sorry I hurt you,
I regret it, I do.
What I did, I regret
So lets make up and forget.
I love you
Just coz
Please forgive me
I'm soz"
Though you can miss last para,if you think that you are still not so close .even i would say not to write last para.
Am sure this sweet but cunning trick will do.
lol!best of luck
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