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Is there anything I can do or am I just forced to stay on the sidelines?

Tagged as: The ex-factor, Three is a crowd, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (12 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my ex dated for 2 years 10 months ago, I still have very strong feelings for him, and he has a girlfriend, but has given me plenty of mixed signals. We're still friends, and I see him every now and then because I'm friends with one of his best friends. Problem is I want him back, but I can't trust him, much less tell him how I'm feeling, as I don't want to ruin the friendship we have and make things awkward. His girlfriend has flirted with his best friend on numerous occasions, and would most likely drop him in a second if there was a chance with his best friend.Is there anything I can do, or just watch things from the sidelines.

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A female reader, kikicupid United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2008):

kikicupid agony auntWhat is the reason you cannot trust him?If you say a little more about your background it would be easier to advise you, but if you think you really want him back and that he will treat you well then i suggest tell him because life is short!!worst case he says no and you move on and meet someone else, yes you might loose your friendship but you might not, he might be flattered but still want you as a friend. Give it a try! Good luck!

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