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My boyfriend is obsessed with me - or is it real love?

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Question - (12 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2008)
A female Australia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my bf is starting to be obsessed with me i think. seems like he only wants me for himself. is this really a good thing and if he really loves me like he always say....should i just accept his behaviour or does that mean he's love for me is actually not real love? we've been dating for more than a year now. we have been through a lot of things and just don't want to live without each other.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

he's jealous! lately very jealous! we had a big argue this weekend and this was about a simple pic a guy sent me of him. my bf don't want me to go to clubs with my friends, get upset when i give certain guys a hug if i do this in front of him he won't speak to me for the whole day. about a month ago he wanted me to delete some of my contacts (ex boyfriends, but i did not actually date with them, just kissed once before or so) i told him i did delete them all, and so he downloaded my mxit without my permission and saw i did not delete them. the one guy did chat with me didn't it was my bf who is on my mxit. this guy said somethings which my bf didn't like (he was one of my "ex's") and so he deleted them and other two as well. is this kind of behaviour normal. i asked him what's wrong with you lately: so he answered is it a sin to be a bit jealous and i'm SO afraid of loosing you. what must i do should i just accept his behaviour or what. we can't live without each other really!!

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A male reader, binhquangdao United States +, writes (12 May 2008):

binhquangdao agony aunthe's selfish if he wants you to himself you also have to spend time with your friends, family coworkers and life around you that being very selfish and let him know that your life and his do not revolve around each other only there other influence and people out there you guys need to spend time alone with others but still work together as one and be there for each other.

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