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writes:PROBLEM: I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO WHEN IM ON TOP!!I am 18 years old, I been having sex for a few years now and I would love to be in-control on top of the guy but when it comes to it I just dont know what to do.... What ever I seem to do it dont really give the guy or me pleasure... So I PLEASE can someone help me as I have tried all differnet things but nothing seems to actually work as I dont know what Im doing!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Sophie89  +, writes (14 May 2008):
OMG! I'm in the same situation. I mean, I dunno whether or not the people i'm with enjoy it or not. But if just feel as if i don't know what i'm doing and i'd much rather have the guy on top. i've heard (and done) circular motions while on top...almost like your hula hooping kinda thing (but smaller circles) feels good for the guy and also "grinding" against his pelvic region (which i've done as well) but like i said, i still don't feel as i'm "good" in bed. but i hope this helps you out, even if its just a little. and let me know if you find and solutions!!!
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reader, Aliki-baby +, writes (13 May 2008):
 I suggest that you sit just above his pelvis area. Then during penatration, just lightly make your body go up and down. It's good when you get going! Good luck --
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reader, uncle_baj +, writes (12 May 2008):
 dont worry about ur performance some people just arent satisfied in certain positions,or mayebe watch a video or read something if the video thing isnt for u
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): Try these answers:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/sex---what-on-earth-does-a.html
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