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*rajan
writes:Hey, I don`t know what to do! My girlfriend of one year and myself have done nothing but fight for the last few months. When it`s good it`s great but I am just so unhappy about us clashing all the time. My heart is telling me to just give up. I`m confused. We are going to Rome for our anniversary but I dont want to go pretending to be happy and enjoying myself. Any advice is appreciated.
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reader, Trajan +, writes (12 May 2008):
Trajan is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys, I`ll go and I`ll try to make it great for her.
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reader, Dreaming  +, writes (12 May 2008):
This is not real estate, location is not the main factor. If you cannot sort it out at home, unlikely to happen in Rome. Have you truly taken the time to talk things out? Maybe time is more of an issue than location. You need to figure out the main issues, what are the pros and cons of the relationship, and in the long run, do the pros outweigh the cons, if so, try and work it out, if not, cut your losses!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): Go honey! Come on, you never know, this could make a big difference to your relationship, a good one! When people go on holiday, they're often in good moods because of the weather and general scene. It brightens people's mood up, just feeling away from people and relaxing. Why not try and make all the fighting up to her by doing something romantic, or just making an effort to buy her something nice, a sweet, romantic night in? She may be in the wrong, but it's just one of these things. You've got to sacrifice things for the people you love, and this might just have to be one of your sacrifices. Good luck and have a great time :]
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 May 2008):
 Call a time out and leave those contentious issues aside which has no answers.
Try to change the topics when those issues cropped up.
Find similar grounds which can bring you closer together.
There are so many things to talk about and there is no need to go there where it is like a mine field.
Try to validate her thoughts.
It may go along way to placate her.
I am sure , there are some issues which you can see eye to eye with her.
It is all a matter of perceptions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): NOooo go!! lol it will be better... maybe going on trip will make everything better and at least more fun and mellow adventures trust me and if things don't change which i doubt then give it a break but dont give up on her if you love her please have fun at rome be romantic and sweet enjoy yourself and hopefully it will be for the best. have fun and good luck . :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): Are they non-refundable tickets?
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