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My boyfriend calls me names around his friends, what should I do?

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Question - (12 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *hawtyy writes:

hello , i have bin with m? bo?friend for around 6 month and now we're getting abit serious . but when hes with his cousins and mates well , he acts different and i know that hes only joking and messing around but when he calls me likee '' silly slag'' and everthing well it still hurts . and i think he trys and embarrass me . and it does work . but when were alone we are really close and i really love him . so much . ive not had sex with him because we dont want to rush . nobody knows how much i love him . ive sold out many friends for him and now i focus on him all the time . hes everything i want its just he must try so hard to make me look like a d*** and it works . what should i do ??

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A male reader, uncle_baj United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2008):

uncle_baj agony aunthes doing this simply out of insecurity,he shouldnt put u down,lads take the piss ut of each other cos thats how we are,its makes each other laugh,but if ur boyfriend has got nothing but derrogatory comments towards u,to make people laugh then thats sad,but if u really do like this guy then as below,talk to him,instead of putting u down how about biggin u up,cos i know if i saw one of my m8s defending his girl and standing by her thats alot more impressive than putting u down,make him understand how u feel x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

Talk to him. Tell him how you feel.

If that doesn't help then maybe you should consider breaking up with him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

Dump him. You deserve better.

You want to be treated like a piece of **** for the rest of your life? Dump him now.

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