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writes:hi, well I know it sais I'm like 16-18 or something but I am not I am 13-15 ...anyway here goesI have a boyfriend and we have been seeing each other for about a month now, I have very strong feelings for him and he's told me he feels the same, the only thing is we haven't even held hands yet! We have snogged and hugged ect... but other than that there is no physical contact.When we say bye we hug and/or kiss but during the day there is no touching or anything. I'm worried that maybe he doesn't want to touch me...He has said to me in texts and stuff that he will hold hands with me without me even mentioning it e.g "when I next see you I will totaly hold your hand and kiss you" but he never does.Is he just embarased or am I getting the wrong impression???
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (12 May 2008):
hey hun!
i think a lot of girls forget that a lot of the time they leave a lot of the touchy stuff up to the guys. I think for them it can sometimes be nervwracking and embarassing. and it takes up a lot of their courage. so try to understand why maybe hes holding back a bit.
if you want to move things on, then you should suprise him next time by holding his hand and that might make him feel a bit more comfortable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): Many men go through that phase. They'll hold hands with you when you are both kids, and they will do it again (probably much to your embarrassment) when you are MUCH older and by which time you think you are long past such things!
Somewhere in between, it gets lost and they think it's silly and childish.
Don't worry about it. Concentrate on the hugs and kisses. He'll grow out of it. Eventually.
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