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female
age
30-35,
*ottDesiLover
writes:i feel like whenever i try to give my boyfriend a blowjob.. i cant live up to the other girls he's been with..considering he's my firsti just always feel like im being compared... and i realzie it makes me feel insecure about myself expecially when he asks me to dance for him or give him a lap dance, or do certain things.. im not comfortable becuz i feel like i wont be able to live up to his expectations...this is putting a strain on my former good self confidence...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): I agree. Besides, if you're boyfriend is using you as a jack-off toy (hate to be crude, but it gets the message across), then you are better off without him. Think about this: do you really want someone who will lessen your self-esteem?
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (29 April 2008):
 Honey, you don't have to to anything you don't feel comfortable with.You might ask yourself deep down why you are giving him oral, lapdances, and sex. Do you truly enjoy it and getting pleasure from it or are you mostly doing it for him to make him like you more?Just some things to think about.Best wishes!
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reader, crownedprincess  +, writes (29 April 2008):
Hiya!!!
if a bloke ever compared me to his ex id tell him where to
go i really would!! like you said its putting a strain on
you and no man should ever mak you feel that way no matter
if you love him!
you should talk to him about it, if you feel you can talk
to him about it then write it down for him or talk to your
girlfriends get them to give you some tips and he stil
compares you then dont sit there taking it! go find
yourself a guy who isnt goin to do that!!
good luck x
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