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writes:Just seen a photo on bebo of my boyfriend on a nite out with his friends. In the photo he has a girl (his friends friend - to him a stranger) wrapped around his neck - both her arms locked around the back of his neck and his arm around the back of her waist. I feel this is wrong but he doesnt see the problem. Anyone else opinions? I just feel so let down that he could think this ok when he has a partner. Maybe it just caught on camera wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): I can totally understand why you're upset honey, I mean, I'd be a bit upset too! But I wouldn't say that it's cheating. However, he should still see the problem. It seems that he was just having a laugh and a good time, and as long as nothing else happened between him and the girl, then it's all innocent really. Although you should talk to him about it (if you have already, then talk further) because he needs to see why you're upset by this photo.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (29 April 2008):
 I dont think its anything to worry about. I hug my male friends all the time and often I'm photographed with them rather than next to my hubbie. If someone throws their arms round your neck its natural to grab on to them somewhere otherwise you'd look stupid and fall over anyway!! Put this out of your mind and dont let it get to you. Good luck x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 April 2008):
Woo lets take a photo, everyone squeeze in close and smile!!!
Click.
There are loads of photos of me with my arms around my friends, mostly for balance because we are squeezed in around a sofa or a table. I don't think anything of hugging my male friends because I know I am married, I know they are not interested, I know it means nothing.
In your head this is a thousand times worse than it really is. He was posing for a photo, nothing more.
If it was anything dodgy, do you think he'd be stupid to let someone take a photo of it and put it on the internet?
I know it's usual to be jealous when another girl is around your man but you should be able to brush it off as soon as he kisses you because you know it meant nothing.
Tell him you don't like the photo, he'll probably think it's cute you get jealous and give you a hug and then you'll never think about it again.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, eddie  +, writes (29 April 2008):
 It all depends on what happened before and after the picture. Pictures do say a thousand words but they are not always what they appear to be. It might be a boundary that you're not comfortable with but it doesn't mean he cheated or disrespected you.
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