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writes:My ex and I broke up about 6 months ago. We were together about two years and things ended pretty rough. Anyhow now we are both dating other people and I haven't heard from him in about a month, but I got online tonight as he asked if I would like to meet to talk with him next Monday. The thing is I'm still completely inlove with him and I don't know what he wants. I'm afriad to get my hopes up. I honestly don't even know if I should go for fear of getting hurt once again. Should I just not talk to him?
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reader, iateadonut  +, writes (29 June 2008):
You could be falling into a trap. Men and women tend to really fall for the one who is aloof with their feelings for him/her.
That's the only danger. If you can't handle it, don't go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk the thing is I'm not asking if I should get back together with him...I realize that I'm with someone else...my question was should I even go and meet up with him..
Thanks for all your responses..
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reader, siren_guj  +, writes (29 April 2008):
What is wrong in reunited. It is not better to find friends on orkut then to go and catch the hends of old one.It is possible he may not have find any friend outside. Dunia choti se hai, world is very small in size and relationship also. Plese chant OLD IS GOLD.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): You have to remember why you broke up, most of those issues wont of gone away. People never change completely. They can change a little, but the major things that made you two argue may well be still within you both. And, you are both with someone else, so why are you looking to get back with the ex? What is wrong with the current relationship? You cannot jump back into a relationship and expect all to be rosy. You also cannot ruin other peoples lives either while you decide. I would tread very careful. Remember, some sleeping bears are best left sleeping.
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe first split up because he lying to me about his contact with his ex gf...and I had a lot of trust issues. At first we were just going to take some time apart to let things settle, but the he slept with a co-worker...
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