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writes:Dear Cupid,I'm writing to ask if guys are only looking for sex/fun after a longterm relationship.Im 15 and recently started having feelings for a 17 year old, but unfortunately he has just came out of a 2 year thing. He has shown no sign of just using me for rebound but I'm wondering before things get too serious and I regret it.I have no intention of rushing into things with him but I'd like the possibility of it growing into something serious and I don't want to tick off that box unless it needs to be.Please Help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou for your answers, they helped :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): People on the rebound don't always know they are until looking back on things. You have lots of time, so why rush it, enjoy the process, get to know each other!
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reader, zgeek  +, writes (29 April 2008):
 that is a hard question to answer in the way that. many guys will come out of a long relationship and rebound to another girl just looking for affection. Sometimes they might stay with whomever they rebound to. then sometimes once they feel like they're heart is back in order will start looking around again. or maybe not even want a relationship.
But if you truly feel for him and him you. don't worry about it. But take it slow. enjoy your time together. =)
Zgeek
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reader, Andrew83 +, writes (29 April 2008):
 Their is no one answer for this, sorry..
Some guys do have fun after a long term r'ship, some dont and some try again with someone else.
If you do go through with it with him, you really need to take it slow, dont rush out and dont put too much on him.
And as the law states, wait till you 16 please.
If you can do all that, it may grow and hopefully last.
I wish you the best with him :)
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