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30-35,
*uddlybear
writes:When my boyfriend was at college he met a girl who he became good friends with as they were in the same class, he had to draw her alot for his project as they worked together and I got really jealous of the girl as she was really beautiful, and he talked about her alot. He stayed over at her house one time and as she was temperaly living with her dad she slept on the pull out sofa bed so he slept on it with her.. he said they both wore there clothes they wore that day and that nothing happend, He also confessed she got changed in front of him, but he said he turned around, I do believe him though as I can tell when he's lying.However the girl moved away and he tried contacting her several times going to her step dads house etc and becoming slightly weird.. However i become more aware that he was obsessive I read his myspace emails, (dont judge me) and came accross emails saying stuff like "dont be jealous of other girls i think your beautiful and stunning why else would I of taking screen shots of you on webcam".. I was devastated and i confronted him and he said he didnt send any emails so I told him I had read them and he confessed to fancying her. I asked him not to talk to her no more, but he carried on, on his other msn which he didnt add me to which he said "I dont use it plus I did think I had added you"... then he deleted the account. she didnt seem to have any interest in him though, and eventualy he gave up talking to her after all the arguing between us.Its been about 10 months now since then, things are better between us, but every now and then I go on her myspace and just stare at how beautiful she is, It's killing me inside because I know i'm not as pretty as her and it makes me wonder why he's still with me if he likes girls as pretty as her.Am I just being stupid?
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reader, sk.khaos  +, writes (30 April 2008):
she doesnt like him.duh
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): hes with you because you made him be withyou. Of course he wishes he was with her. Men don't risk the relationship theyre in unless they think what they are going after is better than what they have currently.
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (29 April 2008):
 okay hun, well all guys will flirt. you cant stop them. I dont see a problem with him fancying her, its just a phase really. Obviously if he is with you and loving you then your who he wants to be with. Dont stress out over this. I wouldnt be too controlling becasue he might get mad, just shorten his leash if you would say. Tell him what bothers you and whats okay with you. Let him know so he dont cross these boundaries anymore. He cant have you both, not that i am saying he even wants her! Express your feelings to one another, compromise. It will work out for you. Trust me, talk it out with him and it will all be oaky
hope i helped =]
take care && good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): He obviously liked her and wanted a relationship with her, sorry but I'm just being honest and this is what it sounds like. But luckily for you she wasn't taking the bait.
You should have dumped him ages ago, this guy disrespected you and would have cheated/left you if he had the chance. Please have some strength girl, this guy isn't trust worthy. No wonder you lost your confidence
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