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writes:I seem to be stuck in "friend zone" with all of the girls I know. Most of the girls I've gotten to know in the last few months, though not all, I met through us being initially interested in one another, and then, after a few weeks things dry up, we stay friends but I find myself totally locked out romance wise. I'm seventeen and am in the last two months of my highschool days and am starting to try and hold onto a seat on the "university will be better" band wagon. Could there be something about me girls realize after awhile doesn't make for boyfriend material? How do I get out of the friend zone? AHH!! :-P Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (29 April 2008):
 The Sister knows what she is talking about. It's actually quite noticeable that these words of wisdom come from a woman; they know this better than us.
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reader, CdnGuy +, writes (29 April 2008):
CdnGuy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the insight, I can see what you mean about closeness building too quickly (though I would hardly say I call or text them everyday). You're right in that I tend to feel eager for interaction, but I'm not exactly sure if I show it enough for it to be an issue. Of course, it's always much easier to analyze from the outside looking in, so you're probably a lot closer to the mark than I want to give you credit for, as a purely selfish and stubborn reaction on my part haha :p I do flirt now and again I suppose, but I'm always afraid of coming of as a creep if it's out of nowhere you know?
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reader, Nikkii Babyee  +, writes (29 April 2008):
 hmm fink u just have a case of bein too nice ov a guy lol! sometimes girls can see guys as being really attractive an they see things at first that they really like about a guy but then when they start getting to know them the guy sometimes trys to be something theyre not! ok a girl likes a guy who cares for them but they also like lil bad boy streaks and 1s that flirt and keep them keen! try maybe taking a different approach to how u get to know them and dont come across too keen at the start and defo do not change because u think u have too because u could be changing the thing they like most :)
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