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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm worried. If I don't have sex soon, will it make me bad at it? They say that practice makes perfect, but I haven't "practiced" for a long time now. I don't want to disappoint any partner I have in the future. I didn't disappoint my girlfriend when I was with her (she was my first and only), but everyone is different. Am I being irrational? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (29 April 2008):
 Listen it's like riding a bike, once you know how you never forget. Next time you might even be able to ride AND let go of the handle bars! You know the "look ma, no hands!" Relax and don't sweat the small stuff, dude.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): Honest answer, yes you are being a little irrational! I know that it seems scary and the thought of not living upto someones expectations is daunting, but not having sex for a while will not make you 'bad' at it. Everyone is different and likes different things, and so what worked before might not work again - not to scare you even more! What makes sex fun is trying new things and learning about each other's bodies. When you're with someone new don't get caught up with the worry that you'll disappoint them because they're there with you and they want to be with you - and are probably just as nervous as you! Ask what she wants, what feels good for her and she will be more than happy! You'll both enjoy yourselves if you're relaxed and in tune with each other - the amount of experience you have and how long it is since you last had sex is not important! xxxx
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