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writes:Hi, i need some advice, i really like this girl, how can i ask her out to go watch a movie? Also when i went out with my last girlfriend we were not very close, and it didn't help that i was a bit shy. If i was to go out with this girl, how can i be more close to her?
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reader, zgeek  +, writes (29 April 2008):
 to get closer to her just hang around with her. make a hard effort to talk with her or if you see her in a crowd walk up and engage in some friendly conversation. like at school in between classes see if you can like talk with her in the hall maybe walk her to her next one. hang out at lunch. The more you do it the easier and more comfortable it gets. its a time thing.
about asking her to a movie. Its just simpler to say "do it". if you are really nervous about it. like you think "ok I'm gonna ask her today...etc" but then when the crunch comes you get to nervous, start doubting yourself and then you just walk away. Just ask even if you are nervous. force yourself. whats the worst that can happen. I doubt she will reject you.
just work up the nerve.
good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): Hi,
I was shy person as well for many years. Getting over it only comes with practice. It gets easier, I promise! It's good to practice courage.
Bit by bit, you'll become more comfortable getting close to girls. Sometimes there is no better way to say it than to follow as Nike says and, well, "just do it." Even if you are rejected, don't take this as something personal. I know that's easier said than done, but really, this girl will not have had a chance to get to know what an amazing person you are. See if she's up for getting to know you better! I wish I could offer you more advice. Good luck!
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (29 April 2008):
 okay sweetie here is what to do, think to yourself...your young and you wanna have fun, dont look at her as a girlfriend thats gonna watch every move you make. RELAX be friends and get to know eachother, talk with her a bit and bring up what movies are out and if she makes an interested response then ask her if she wants to go sometime. simple=] Dont act as if your married lol have some fun. Dont be shy because i bet you a milllion bucks that the girl your trying to get with is probably feelin the same way. Play it cool
take care && good luck!
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reader, alan949 +, writes (29 April 2008):
What is your relationship with her? Does she really know you? But anyways there's always the "haven't seen it yet, would you want to go with me?" or maybe the simple straight asking out. Like "Would you be interested in seeing a movie with me (insert date here)." Things like that...
Hope I helped even slightly, send me a message if you want anymore info or something :)
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reader, notinthesane +, writes (29 April 2008):
 You really just have to work up the nerve to ask this girl to the movies. I think that is the only thing you can do. When it comes to getting close to someone though, you just have to take your time and, eventually, you will start to feel more and more comfortable with them. There is nothing wrong with being shy, but you have to learn when it's okay to let your guard down.
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