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writes: I finally caved and put up an online profile at the behest of my friends who swear by internet dating....and low and behold, I found someone! We are in related professions, attended college in the same area and now live in the same town, we have very similar interests...the list goes on and on. Anyway, we met for dinner and drinks on a Monday and it went well. We continued to chat online the following days, but never made plans to do something. Over that weekend, he began to show MIA signs. For example, "be right back" turns into hours and hours away from the computer...a response to his "what are you up to later" is never followed up on his end...I hate hate HATE hard-to-get games, so I never play them, but I wonder if HE'S playing hard-to-get? Could he just be a bit absent minded, or nervous, or too comfortable in our casual chatting? Or ultimately uninterested? Reply to this Question
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reader, notinthesane  +, writes (29 April 2008):
 It sounds to me like he is just weasling out of telling you that he isn't interested. It's a childish way of going about it, but that's what it looks like. I would back off and see what happens. If he is into you and you back off, he might step up, but if he doesn't, then he just isn't worth it.
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